Reflections on Helping Vs. Enabling
I’ve been reflecting on a certain word: need. It’s not my “star word” for the year (see previous blog entry), but it’s a word that keeps coming up this week. As in, lots of people need help. And, more is needed if we’re going to break down systems that keep people impoverished or disenfranchised. And, what does this person really need when they’re asking me for help? I’m thinking about a question that I plan to ask as many people this year as possible: “What do you need from your church?” And, a bigger question that is just weighing on my heart this week: am I helping to actually meet a need or am I enabling someone? That’s a hard question, because on the one hand people do need help and what is the church except to be the body of Christ who loves her neighbor as we love ourselves? When the disciples told Jesus people were hungry, Jesus said, “...